Ok All,
I got it working the way I wanted. Here it is:
Install Fedora on your HDD the way you want it. In my case:
hda1 = Dell rescue partition (it came that way).
hda2 = Win XP Professional
hda3 = /boot
hda4 = /
hda5 = /swap
With grub, I had it install itself on hda3. At the end of the install Fedora reboots, and so I couldn't strip off the bootsector from hda3 without finding a way to get into my system first. This is where my problem was. I wanted to use the XP bootloader, and not have grub overwrite my mbr. This version of Fedora is test 1, and so I'm sure I"ll be putting something else on sooner or later. The answer....
After rebooting, I quickly insert my Knoppix 3.3 disk and boot it up. I opened a term window, type su, and mount hda3 (mount /dev/hda3, cd /dev/hda3). Then I get the bootsector off by typing: dd if=/dev/hda3 of=/bootsector.fda bs=512 count=1. I rename it by cp /bootsector.fda bootsector.fda.txt. Then I email this to myself using Mozilla.
After rebooting to Windows, opened up Outlook Express and saved my bootsector.fda.txt file to C:\. Opening up a Command Prompt window, I entered:
cd \
attrib -h -r -s boot.ini
copy boot.ini boot.old
notepad boot.ini
Then I add C:\bootsector.fda "Fedora Core test 1" at the end of the file, and changed the "Timeout=30" to "Timeout=5". Saved the boot.ini file, and un-did the attrib settings, and renamed the bootsector.fda.txt file:
attrib +h +r +s boot.ini
rename bootsector.fda.txt bootsector.fda
I then rebooted -- WAMMO! I'm in Fedora.
Life shouldn't be this easy.